now...let me explain a little about love...in my opinion.. well...there are two kinds of love..selfless love...like how a mom would love her children..and selfish love..you love to benefit yourself.. hatred is the opposite of love...but selfish love is the real enemy of selfless love.. if a couple love each others selflessly...their life would be a very beautiful one...you will even envy them..their love can stand the wind and rain.. selfish love means..you not only love the other party..you also want to control..want to posses the other part..that's why sometimes you will do stupid things when the other party love you no more.. as for your friend..i cant conclude that she love her bf selflessly or selfishly..because i'm not her.. but humans..are emotional..if i were her..i may do the same thing...unless you are a real pusa...or else...evryone will have the time when their weak..hope she gets better..
i agreee with miss xiao qing...what she say is right... but you cannot say the same thing to everyone...maybe some ppl will understand somwething and get on to a her life... but some may commit suicide just because of your words...they will think of themselves as useless...and wont want to live anymore.. correct..mr.psychologist to be? only ppl with wisdom will know what they should say...
to miss xiao qing..again..hehe: not trying to be rude here...sorry if you think i am... how much do you know about the teachings of kong zi... ppl will always take one small part of a saint's teaching to be his own shield of his own theory...really..you go and observe.. howard gave a good example...from the great learning.."da xue"...fist...you dont talk about others...see yourself..love yourself first..then love your family..love your friends..love other ppl's family as how you would love yours..love other ppl's friends as how you would love yours..if everybody think of themselves only...war will happen.. if you cannot love your parents..your love towards others is fake..pathetic.. start from yourself...then make the influence greater... if you talk about manners..same...dont use your mouth first..use your actions...you use your mouth only when ppl ask..
oh..sorry for misinterpreting your message..stupid me..hehe.. poh yi..thx for praising wor... yup....to be responsible and to love yourself is your responsibility..but if you can take this love and put on others..great...
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now...let me explain a little about love...in my opinion..
well...there are two kinds of love..selfless love...like how a mom would love her children..and selfish love..you love to benefit yourself..
hatred is the opposite of love...but selfish love is the real enemy of selfless love..
if a couple love each others selflessly...their life would be a very beautiful one...you will even envy them..their love can stand the wind and rain..
selfish love means..you not only love the other party..you also want to control..want to posses the other part..that's why sometimes you will do stupid things when the other party love you no more..
as for your friend..i cant conclude that she love her bf selflessly or selfishly..because i'm not her..
but humans..are emotional..if i were her..i may do the same thing...unless you are a real pusa...or else...evryone will have the time when their weak..hope she gets better..
连自爱都不会，还谈爱？
如果连自己都不会疼惜及保护，动不动就为一个莫名其妙的人哭，那当然不能算是什么好事。
噢，小弟对这类事十分门外……不过，萧清啊，人是感性的啊，总不能太过硬吧？
呵呵，浩然，我可是“法家人物”啊，我讲理多过讲情的。
所以法家的人物都没有很好的婚姻吧？
还好我是傅家人物（自创一派，中心思想是没有原则）
什么东西都应该看情况而定呱...
可能他有什么我们不知道的背景咧！
人类就是复杂的动物，
不情深是花心，情深一点就给人搬上来blog讨论
唉/...哈哈
i agreee with miss xiao qing...what she say is right...
but you cannot say the same thing to everyone...maybe some ppl will understand somwething and get on to a her life...
but some may commit suicide just because of your words...they will think of themselves as useless...and wont want to live anymore..
correct..mr.psychologist to be?
only ppl with wisdom will know what they should say...
呵呵，基本上法家人物是太理性了，对人性的诠释也以大部分模式为先驱来做武断的决定。
情深是一回事，自爱又是另一回事，我想人在逼迫的情况下总是要把自己放在第一位，这是人之常情，也不能算错。
孔子说，要老吾老幼吾幼什么的，才能天下大同。我觉得只要每个人管好自己的事情，就天下太平了。……
回应陌路人：
对，爱有分大爱和小爱。
还有很多很多爱…
父母爱、手足爱、友爱、…
可是很奇怪的，当人们遇到爱情时，人们可以否定所有的爱…
20岁的小家伙对刚认识的女友说：『我没有你，我活不下去…！』
废话！那你二十年是怎样活过来的？
你一生下来就是20岁？一挣开眼睛就看到你女友？
回应萧姑娘：
欲治其国者，先齐其家。
欲齐其家者，先修其身。
……
这是你想说的吗？
回应浩然兄：
爱是学问，有人从爱里复活，有人在爱里沉沦。
怪哉，怪哉。
回应傅家第一人：
希望我摆这情深故事上网，能够提醒你注意身边的人。
to miss xiao qing..again..hehe:
not trying to be rude here...sorry if you think i am...
how much do you know about the teachings of kong zi...
ppl will always take one small part of a saint's teaching to be his own shield of his own theory...really..you go and observe..
howard gave a good example...from the great learning.."da xue"...fist...you dont talk about others...see yourself..love yourself first..then love your family..love your friends..love other ppl's family as how you would love yours..love other ppl's friends as how you would love yours..if everybody think of themselves only...war will happen..
if you cannot love your parents..your love towards others is fake..pathetic..
start from yourself...then make the influence greater...
if you talk about manners..same...dont use your mouth first..use your actions...you use your mouth only when ppl ask..
em...your last paragraph really useful
不要先用嘴巴，应该先用行动
哈哈哈。
我不是说人该只为自己，只是觉得只要每个人管好自己应该做的事，对自己负全责，这个世界就会很好了。我们不能期望每个人都对别人表示关爱，因为他们对别人没有责任和义务。不过，对他们自己，他们有责任看管好自己，如此而已。……
oh..sorry for misinterpreting your message..stupid me..hehe..
poh yi..thx for praising wor...
yup....to be responsible and to love yourself is your responsibility..but if you can take this love and put on others..great...
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